i bought the book " tell me about the night i was born" which is a book written by jamie lee curtis about a child who is adopted . I wanted to start the conversations with jayden and jakob about being adopted . I was all calm and collected until i read this page and burst out crying happy/mixed emotion tears "tell me again about how you couldnt grow a baby in your tummy , so another woman who was too young to take care of me was growing me and she would be my birth mother,and you would adopt me and be my parents "